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Self-care and Balance: Achieving Menopausal Peace While Caring for an Aging Parent

elderly parent menopausal peace self-care Jun 29, 2023

Trying to find balance in menopause while caring for an aging parent can be challenging. It has been one year since I began caring for my 93-year old mother-in-law Ruby.

But let me tell you, it wasn't an easy task, I just knew that she deserved the best care possible. If the shoe was on the other foot, I would want the same if feasible. Each day feels like a whirlwind of demands and obligations as I tried to balance her needs with my own. 

At first, it seemed impossible to find any peace amidst all the chaos; however, I quickly learned that true inner peace is available even in the most challenging circumstances if we choose to seek it out and create moments of stillness throughout our days. 

Self-care became paramount for me

It took a while for this to sink in. As the months passed I realized it was important for me to take time every day to disconnect from the outside world and connect with my inner self, even if it was just for a few craved 15 minutes. This gave me the respite that I needed in order to keep going.

Whether it was meditating, journaling, color therapy or simply sitting on my deck undisturbed in nature, I made sure to make time for myself each day.

I also started to practice mindful eating, focusing on the taste and texture of my food instead of eating mindlessly. This helped me connect with my body and appreciate the nourishment it was receiving. I found that allowing myself moments of pleasure throughout the day made a huge difference in my overall wellbeing .

By focusing on my self-care, I was able to find balance and peace of mind amidst the chaos of menopause while caring for an elderly parent. It took time and conscious effort but it was worth every minute!

If you’re in a similar situation or just want to learn more about how to practice self-care when caring for an elderly parent, take a look at our lifestyle guidebook, click on the link at the bottom of this blog on, 'CONQUER MENOPAUSE FATIGUE' Restore your vitality while caring for your aging parents. 

I want to convince you that with the right guidance and support, you too can find respite in self-care while caring for an elderly parent.

Finding joy and chic living in everyday activities despite the stressors of caregiving

You have to decide that each morning will be dedicated solely to self-care—no matter how small or brief an activity might be—so that you can start each day on a positive note.

When I did this, it grew into something larger than just taking time for myself: over time, my newfound sense of peace became a way to enrich both me and those around me much more deeply than before.

Everything from mundane tasks such as making breakfast or folding laundry took on new meaning as meditation spaces where I could focus inwards and connect with myself in meaningful ways while also providing comfort for my family through physical touch or simply being present alongside them in their daily lives. 

Check out one of my favorite Spotify playlist called 'Peaceful Piano' which has helped me to bring my mind back to a state of calm. I put in my earbuds and stay in this stillness.

My new journey has taught me many things about patience and understanding, but most importantly it has allowed me to appreciate life’s simple pleasures no matter what situation you may find yourself in--even when caring for someone else’s elderly family member!

  1. That it is possible to create a sense of inner peace even when juggling your own needs and the needs of another individual.
  2. Often it is your own perception that can affect how you cope with stress triggers that can rob you of peace.

This blog post will explore how to achieve harmony and self-care while caring for an aging parent, empowering you to take control of menopause and lead a healthier, happier life.

Finding respite in self-care as a ritual is essential

I had to recognize that caring for an elderly parent can be a long-term responsibility and it's easy to become overwhelmed with everyday life. Making time each day to focus on yourself and do something you enjoy, whether it be meditating, dancing or just having some quiet time for yourself will recharge your batteries and give you a fresh perspective.

Taking care of yourself is the best way to ensure that you can adequately take care of your aging parent.

It is also important to create healthy boundaries and make sure that your aging loved one understands them. For instance, having set times when they know you are available to help with any chores or medical needs can help manage expectations on both sides.

Learning to say ‘no’ when you need a break or some time for yourself is essential. You don't want to burn out!

Finally, it's important to remember that you are not alone in this journey and there are many resources available if you need support. Finding a support group or speaking with a counsellor can help you stay positive and manage stress.

It's also important to reach out to your family members and friends for help with practical tasks like grocery shopping or cleaning.

Ultimately, you don't have be superhuman when it comes to caring for an elderly parent while managing menopause. Finding respite in self-care can help make the journey easier - both for you and your loved one.

With a few simple tips, you can lead a healthier and happier life while still providing the care your parent needs.

Discover the peace of menopause while caring for an elderly parent in this lifestyle guidebook 'Conquer Menopause Fatigue, Restore your VitalityWhile Caring for Aging Parents. 

Get ready to unlock luxury and balance with tips on how to find joy in taking care of your loved one, amidst menopause symptoms. 





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